SOMEONE'S TRUE LIFE STORY AND EXPERIENCE

PART 2

"Sometimes when I was with some money, I'd get a room for him in a hotel for him to go and have his bathe and sleep on a bed.

One day he told me he had lost his phone. I gave him mine and my mom bought me a new one. It wasn't long he lost it again and this time I told my mom and she gave me a new phone to gift him.

He called me as I was about leaving for lectures in the morning and begged me for some money. I told him I didn't have but can borrow from a friend.

After lectures, I went with food to his shop and didn't see him. He left his phone and it was ringing. After ringing several times, a message came in.

I read the message because it popped up on the screen. He got another girl pregnant and they were having a disagreement on what to do about it. He promised to send her money to get rid of the baby that evening which was the money he begged me to give him.

I confronted him and in defense he smashed his phone(the one my mom gave him)into pieces saying that I had no right to question him. I left in anger.

The more he wronged me, the more his condition worsened and I still remained in the relationship. I was too lazy to quit and start afresh with a totally different person. I didn't just want that stress of starting afresh. I thought of what people would say because a lot of people knew us as an item.

He never stopped with his cheating and lies. He would pick my phone, frame up one story and borrow huge amount of money from my friends without my consent, withdraw the money, and hide it from me.

It was easy to do so because I trusted him so much and he had access to my phone, ATM, passwords, pin etc

The day I found out was when his elder brother called me and was raising his voice over one 30k he lent me. I refuted his claim and he sent me screenshots of my chat with him, debit alert and my acknowledgement. I was shocked and confronted him. That's when i found out that up to 4 of my friends lent him money too.

I also found out that all those times he told me he lost his phone, he used them to play loverboy with his girlfriends.

To clear my name and retain my reputation, I had to pay those debts and I changed all my pin and passwords.

I still didn't break up with him, I was just too naive, lazy and still loved him."