Communication

Hello Ade how are you? and Hello Ade what is your problem?, can be perceived in both a negative or positive light.
Take into cognizance that people are meant to understand what you say, and how you communicate. What you think in words may mar or make a relationship.
At all times you most ensure to keep a reasonable voice level,avoid shouting.
You don't need to scream to pass the message across.
Some persons might be oh! This person is too stubborn, I need to shout, maybe I am getting too soft or weak. The truth is that you can be authoritative plus command respect without shouting.
One thing you must know you don't just bark out command to people and expect everyone to carry them out.
Learn how best to communicate with various individuals as you meet them on daily basis.
Keep a positive attitude, try as much as possible to give a positive vibe will communicating.